Quote Originally Posted by Katey888 View Post
This is something innate - we are born with it... something genetic, perhaps even hereditary. If you were a GG seeking the best possible mate for your future progeny and you thought there was even a hint of a possibility this could be passed on to your children or future generations, how do you think you would view a CDer as a potential partner...
I'll confess to having those thoughts. My son (11 years old) came back from summer camp with amusing stories of wearing drag for the camp talent show -- including high heels. (He has become very impressed with my ability to walk in 4" heels -- he'd be even more impressed if he knew his dad can do it too!)

When I heard his camp stories, I started obsessing about the fact that half of his closet has been used for my extra suits, which I rarely wear. My son doesn't use that half of his closet, so it seemed like a logical place to store my suits. (That decision was made 8 years ago, when we moved in, and long before I knew about my husband's transgender issues.)

But I've read stories here about CDers who say they started by wearing their mom's clothes... And I went and hung male clothes there instead (his father's out-of-season shirts). I know it's not up to me to determine if my boy CDs, but I hate the idea that he'll tell my future daughter-in-law that it all started with wearing my clothes after I'd hung them in his closet.