The problem is, DeeAnn, this "community" is an artificial construct cooked up by sociologists in some think tank somewhere without heed to whether or not a cross-dresser, transsexual, genderqueer, etc. had the similar outlooks, motivations, desires, upbringings and so on. We were al unceremoniously dumped under this Umbrella "transgender" without being consulted. It might as well have made the category "people who wear clothing not designed for their birth gender". It is as if they lumped a people into a category of "those who read books" without looking closely at the different genre of books people read.
This isn't to say that the groups in the transgender umbrella should be opposed to each other. But how on earth can you expect lock step uniformity among this group, when you have one part coming from the serious position of being trapped in their wrong gendered body and another part just gets a thrill from wearing satin lace panties from time to time? Those two are going to a very different life experiences and outlooks on the world in general. For one it might be key to their life the other may see it as a frivolous pass time. Chances are they are not going to agree on the nature of transgenderism or its importance. I don't think the group hold any personal grudges against the others it is just so hard to find common ground when all the groups start form a wide array of points.
