No Lori, you jumped off Kait's quote to the wrong conclusion.

That particular point was about the vast majority of part-timers who literally lead two separate lives. Those dudes who are so fragile that they won't even verbally defend trans people for fear of being "outed". There are people on this board who have admitted to actually joining in with their buddies on the name calling. I am friends with some great people who I like an awful lot, but even they are crazy closeted in certain company or certain areas.

That is something that you have less and less tolerance for as the years go by. Kaitlyn is making a hard distinction between those that have secret lives, and those that have stopped living with secrets.

People can call themselves whatever they want as far as I'm concerned, but at the end of the day all you are is what you show the world. The rest is just pretending.