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Megan, I assume you are interpreting "feel like a woman" as "has an inner feeling like a woman"? If so, I agree a male cannot possibly know what it feels (inner feeling) like to be a woman everyday.
However, "feel like a woman" can be interpreted different way too. Most CDs here when say it, they probably mean "I feel (have a look feeling) of a woman". They don't mean anything close to claim that one know how woman feel inside. Mostly, I think, we just refer to the outside feeling (touch/sight/smell) that we feel (have outside feeling) like a woman.
See this thread here: http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...l-like-a-woman
Zooey, I have come to realize that you seem to be biased towards men in general. Do you realize that? By saying "men just don't understand women" from the beginning already shows how you think of men, clearly. You feel oppressed, sure. But to blame all men is just plainly disgusting. And if you think like that, there's no way men will ever understand you (just you, I'm not talking about all trans woman) And I will stretch that, because of your actions here, you are already representing a bad image of trans woman you so much want to protect.
I'm not saying all woman are bad, but by Zooey's action makes me wonder subconsciously if this is what other trans woman are like as well? You know, it's like if once you got attacked by a <some race, not trying to be specific and sound racist here> person, you will start to unconsciously be biased toward all similar <race> people too because they share common image of the person who had attacked you in the past. It's just how human nature works to defend themselves by learning from the past.
And Sally, thanks for bringing that point up. I wasn't sure myself what is the problem I'm having with Zooey here, I just know it's not going smoothly. But you nailed it, Zooey's tone of speaking are mostly dismissal and not one of reasoning. I'm trying to find a reason here and Zooey seems to put all emotion and ego into her own replies.
I think I find it a waste of time talking to Zooey here. It's like talking to a wall who only knows how to reflect back what the other person talks. Zooey, I don't know if you use this tone with other men in your personal life too, if you do, be careful what you'll get out there. You will only get treated back nicely if you treat the other person nicely first.
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