Yes, it's just that easy.

[Satrana]

She did say that she would not have married me if I had told her in advance. But she also said that she has a wonderful loving man for a partner and that the compassion and understanding that I am blessed with has alot to do with the feminie aspects of my personality.

Thats the big catch 22. GGs are distraught that when their partners do not reveal their crossdressing before marriage, yet 99% admit if they had known they would have run away. They would have pre-judged their partner on the grounds of his clothing preference and would not have judged him as a person. Yet the fact that they did marry their partner shows that they loved him as a person, with a personality which already reflected his transgendered nature. Does this mean hiding the crossdressing was the right choice?

I guess it boils down to what you think is the bigger wrong, a crossdresser hiding his secret and part of his personality or a SO judging her lover over a prejudice which prevents her from respecting him as a person.