Wow -- I am so new here that the passion and honesty are overwhelming. My 2cents - My wife found out one month ago. We have spoken in depth and she is, so far, OK with it. No interest in seeing me or participating. She did say that she would not have married me if I had told her in advance. But she also said that she has a wonderful loving man for a partner and that the compassion and understanding that I am blessed with has alot to do with the feminie aspects of my personality. She also said that we are soo great together. I am 90% a pretty manly man and I love that aspect of myself as well. I can not stop my tg activities I have tried so - If I had told her first she would not be my wife and also likely would not have a partner as devoted as I am to her. I want to honor her by beeing the guy she married and she says she understands that to repress or stuff Candy Darling away will result in some other behavior that could be worse or depression or whatever. I chose my wife over everything but hoestly - this is who we are.
