Quote Originally Posted by Satrana View Post
I guess it boils down to what you think is the bigger wrong, a crossdresser hiding his secret and part of his personality or a SO judging her lover over a prejudice which prevents her from respecting him as a person.
to me it is down to a person lying ..... not hiding his secret... lying.... as in not teling the truth.... my partner was a practising cdr when mwe met and he chose not to reveal that....... no hiding just out and out lying........... yet still we are together..................... so where does that leave me as a prejudicer........... accepting or gullible????