I can't say enough about my wife and what a great woman she is. But she has a body image problem. Although I'd like her to improve her looks with diet. I'd never be the one to suggest it.
So to get to my point is that she (has never said) can't look at me me dressed because I may look better than she. I know this may upset some GGs but it may be another factor here to consider. BTW I do not think I remotely look better than she does. She is most pleasing to my eye.