That's there too, but where it's easier to get over the betrayal (or at least, once you do, you're fine), the lack of attraction may never go away. Also, I wanted to bring up just one topic, as opposed to the whole gambit of why someone would have a problem with this.
Also, I figured that it would be assumed that not everyone applies to what I said. I think I even mentioned that. However, I'm sorry that I misled you. Everyone is different, and my examples only apply to some of us.