There's no right or wrong here - everyone has their own combination of what attracts them to their partner and, yes, these things do change over the years.
And physical attraction is a 2 way thing - I'd like all the CDgirls here to think deep inside themselves and admit what attracted them to their GG SO in the first place - and if all you say to yourselves is their sense of humour, wit, enquiring mind etc, we'll know many of you are lying .... !
