I find it disgusting that alot of CD's hide their dressing from their wives
Marriage is about a sacred team, a union, and it entails honesty and I think if you CD you should disclose it.
Your kids don't need to know but your wives? Come on!
That's like as bad as cheating. It' Omission and it's lying.
I hear all these posts like, "How can I hide my pantyhose from my wife." Jesus. That is pure deception.
Imagine how your wife would feel.
I think your CD'ing is less of a problem for them than the lying and sneaking around.
I know you're not real women like me so it's hard to think of it how SHE might feel, but I would rather him be honest and tell me he had a perversion (if she thinks of it that way) rather than being deceptive AND doing your thing too.
