This is my first post but I've been lurking around for awhile. the comments on this board have really helped me out so far...thanks for that. Just found out about my BF's crossdressing a few months ago. It's just been over the past month or so that we've gotten to the point where he fully dresses, usually for the evening, more nights than not. I've gone above and beyond to be supportive and to try to understand.
Maybe this isn't a big deal, but it's bothering me alot. The other night we started arguing while he was dressed. Nothing major and not CD related. So, he gets up, stomps out of the room and eventually comes back dressed masculine. So, I ask him what's up and he says he can't argue with me dressed like that. which leads to a whole other thing because that was pretty much saying to me that it was just fine to be a girl unless you need to be a man to be in a stronger position and therefore superior to me. Which is so infuriating. And not fair. And I don 't get it. I can't just get up and change my clothes and manurisms and be in a more powerful position in an argument. So this is bothering me and it almost makes me not able to take the whole CD thing seriously.
Would appreciate anyone's thoughts...or am I making a big deal out of nothing??? Thanks
