Well I'm definitely still in the closet, but I kind of do this. I don't know if any of you have ever heard of omegle, but it's a random, anonymous video chatting site. I like to get dressed up and try to talk to people on there, to build my confidence to the point where I can leave the house. I never take it too far, but it does make me feel kind of good that some guys really, really want to talk to me, so I do kind of return the flirting.
It might be weird, but it's my way of building confidence.