How many of you are straight but flirt with men anyway?

[cdona20]

Which brings me to my question ... doesn't this present a conflict for you? Does knowing that an admirer sees you fundamentally as a guy and he's just doing what guys do when they want sex, make you feel any less feminine? Or is this something you just don't like to think about when you are dressed? I hope you don't mind my asking, but it does fit in with the thread topic.

I never really thought of it that way before. But having been hit on before without revealing my true gender to the perpetrator, I gotta say it isn't all that different than when they know I'm a CD. They say the same things, give the same compliments. So the attention doesn't feel any different.

I actually once turned a straight guy on to CD/TS. He doesn't like men at all except when they look like women (very passable women). I think that should count as evidence that CD/TS admirers don't see us fundamentally as guys but rather that they see us as women with a rather unfortunate birth defect.

So in the end I don't feel any less feminine because alot of the guys turned on by me may still identify as straight and are attracted to my womanly characteristics.