I don't dictate ANYTHING to my partner EVER... and if I had unresolved issues, do you think I'd be an administrator of a CD forum, do you think Tam would be out? Do you think we'd go to events... and NO ONE would ever dictate anything to me either, I am my own person.... if people dictate to one another what they can and can't wear, then that's their problem.. not mine... my issue with you was what you said about people being selfish... now I'm going to go eat my dinner and go offline, before I say something I might just regret....