That could sound a bit non-romantic, but giving your wive the attention and love she deserves is a selfish act too.Originally Posted by Lovely Rita
Selfish, because it makes you feel good once you did, which you realize if you don't ... then you feel bad.
It could help to realize that loving someone and caring for him/her is a great feeling too ... learn, re-learn that feeling, watch it, observe it, enjoy it.
So, be selfish as hell, but avoid to be to too self-absorbed.