I think most in here don't condone cheating but as you say Shelia, there are all sorts of things that lead to people straying in their relationship, and I hope that most would agree that no reason is a good reason. Of course there are some that just don't care, but god I hope most do.

Bottom line, in this thread, crossdressing can be used as that avenue and some have or are thinking about it. IMO, weather it's CD'ing or something else someone uses as an excuse, they should look deeper and ask themselves what is really wrong in their relationship as an excuse is just that, and excuse, not the reason.