The cop-out is to suggest that GGs have these doubts because of threads like this. The truth is that these doubts have been in place since the moment the GG learned of her partner's habit. Every GG automatically asks at the moment of revelation whether the CD is gay and if he intends to change sex. These are universal questions because this is what society believes drives crossdressing. Society does not believe these things because everyone comes here and reads threads like this. This is the historic ignorance and prejudice that drives CDs into the closet in the first place.Originally Posted by kellycan27
These doubts about sexuality and transsexualism always remain nagging at the back of every GG's mind that maybe one day in the future things will change and her partner will want to go full time or will become attracted to men. The fear never fully goes away. So of course these threads will only convince some GGs that their fears are justified.
This however is very unfair on CDs. You can find examples of every type of imaginable behavior, does that mean our partners should fear that we may do a million different things that would hurt her? Does generalizing about these matters mean you should stop seeing your partner as an individual and convict your partner as guilty without charge?
See its simple. You either trust your partner or you don't. There is no middle ground, it is either one or the other. If you have no evidence that your partner is cheating then you have wronged them in a major way. A relationship is worthless without trust and to destroy it based upon insecurities is a terrible thing.
By all means go look for evidence to support your insecurities in other people's fantasies and behavior. How does this help your relationship with your partner?
