Busted, Rejected........Screwed

[Areyan]

geez, if you're transsexual you don't deserve to be in a heterosexual marriage, fooling a partner. i will say this time and again. you do not deserve to be in this situation UNLESS your partner knows. i dun care what your excuses are. they are never enough for putting your partner in what looks like a "gay" situation to them. if you're a cross dresser, not transsexual, this can still be worked on within a marriage but get your heads out of the pink clouds and try to accept that straight women who do not go specifically for CDs and transgirls are NOT lesbians and don't appreciate you making their relationship into something that resembles it.

don't foist this down a straight woman's throat as something she needs to accept. if you are stupid enough to hide it from her for years you do not deserve acceptance, really. if you get it you are lucky and should damn well treat it that way. if you are unlucky and your wife doesn't accept after hiding it from her for all the years you've been together, go suck on a lemon. really.

if your wife was hiding the EXACT same thing that would make most natal males angry and sick about having what looks like a gay relationship to them. natal males, get out of the pink fog and try to imagine your wife in a blue one. would you then be sitting here whinging and whining poor me or would you flat out dump her manly self and move on to a more femme thing? oh yes you would because that's how you guys operate. really, you expect far too much from natal women when you are expecting acceptance in the same situation.

that's all you CDs and transgirls need to get and you'll find the right one. honest. it's that simple. look for a partner who ENJOYS this kind of thing and stop wasting straight women's lives on your problem. you are ruining their lives by wasting their time on someone as screwed up about gender and sex as you are when they'd rather be with someone more masculine and "together" in his head as a man. and dun tell me you've got it together if you have gender issues because you really don't when you are putting others in situations like this - it's a clear indication that you have a problem, not that you have it together. i know some women here would disagree because they are into this sort of thing, but there are plenty who are not and this is the cold hard truth you "gurls" dun want to hear.