Sara, if you don't mind the question, when you go to the support meetings, do you present as a woman like your avatar, or are you more like a guy wearing a skirt, without makeup, forms, wigs, etc. And if your avatar is you and you don't identify even partially with any aspect of the feminine gender, then why do you present this way?
Also, just so you know, TG does not mean being a transsexual who is a woman in a man's body. "Trans" means to cross, and Trans-gender means crossing a gender boundary in some way, even if it is an occasional desire to present as a gender that is opposite than birth, even if the predominant gender identity is male.