You ARE totally straight SoulSis. A CD male is not physically different from a non CD male. All of the parts and hair and innate masculinity is still there. Enjoy your man. ;-)Originally Posted by soulsister9432 GG
I used to have a fantasy about being with a woman, I'm not attracted to women and I don't think I am lesbian. I never could act on it, but when I found out my BF liked to dress I thought to myself..."self, this IS the woman you have fantasized about." Maybe that is why I could never act out on it before...And I consider myself totally straight.
Now before I get hammered for not taking into account how femmy a sub segment of CD's are, I'm specifically talking about the average semi closeted or closeted CD that makes up the vast majority of the CD population. If the act of putting on women's clothes make you aroused, how are you gonna tell me you're not a man?
The gals that are chiming in and admitting they are indeed bi, or that it's really just a fantasy and they know it, or even that they like to fantasize they are women are to be commended. This is the kind of honest disclosure that helps the CIS women understand the community. It's truly amazing how powerful honesty can be.
We all know that sexuality is fluid, but that doesn't excuse the "magic clothes" assertion. Sure, you may feel more sensual when you're "playing" and thus more likely to have sexier or more adventurous feelings but that's really normal for bisexual people. They are drawn to one side or another depending on how they're feeling for one reason or another. Sometimes I even want to make out with a hot girl if she hits me at the right time, and kissing women is NOT one of my favorite things. If you are sexually fluid than good for you, it's a blast and life is short, but don't freak out the straights by saying your clothes are somehow magic. All that does is make them think that ALL Cd'rs are subject to the gay making clothes. That ANY man will be gay if he puts on a dress. I know THAT ain't true.
