It's a shame no one here ever takes time to consider this issue. ;-) But seriously, I have devoted a good amount of time in my life considering my sexuality and its evolution. I started my life straight. I had no feelings for a man whatsoever. And if I had, I'm certain I would have been scared straight by the ridicule heaped on kids that show even a hint of being "gay." It was the ultimate insult growing up! Then I went to a college with a very high gay population. And I learned that there is nothing wrong with a person who identifies as gay and they certainly pose no threat to me whatsoever. Still, I was straight. I moved back to NYC and began a career in a creative industry. I have worked with and become friends with some incredibly talented and wonderful people in the LGBT community. In my late 20's I discovered an infatuation with crossdressing at first an admirer and eventually crossdressing myself, which led me to consider whether this made me "bi-curious." I've dressed part time, on of for a number of years now. I love it. It's exhilarating and liberating. And when I do, I do feel the desire to be treated like a woman by a man. And I have acted on it. So, I have come to terms with the fact that I am out and out bi-sexual. I enjoy relations with men and women equally, depending on the person and the situation. So in the end, I guess what I am is sexual. In the end, it matters little what others think or how others label you. It matters only how you feel about yourself.
