In response to CindyO, You are right that the scope of us cders is huge. I am single and looking to meet a woman. I am a member of a national online dating site that most of us all see advertised. I am very happy to be a man and most people would think of me as being a very macho male figure. I want a wife and children someday and do all the normal stuff that any husband and father would do for and with his family. I don't publish the fact that I cd and I even wonder at what point do I mention it. Most of the women that I have met and gone a date with never knew about this side of me and as in most cases, a 2nd date never occured for other reasons. I did date a woman for a month and I told her before we even met about my cding. She tried to accept it but eventually she just couldn't get over the fact that I was such a man yet happy to wear womens clothes. For me, it is a chance to feel softer, more civilized and perhaps more attractive then I feel when as a man. The fact that I can't seem to gain the interest of women makes me wonder if I am being driven to dress as a woman due to the lack of one in my life. Naturally, when I do finally meet her, I have every intention of telling her about my girly side since I want to be honest at the start. I assure you, I have no interest in men and the few times that I have been out dressed up, I was more interested in the women and even blew off a guy who was hitting on me. It is hard to pick up women when you are dressed as one. We all are looking for acceptance. We're not trying to change the world or demand equal rights. We just enjoy this side of life on occassion and would love to have a woman by our side who accepts us as we are. Well at least that is in my case.
