donno, i am a single bi man, when i am en femme i desire being with a man, when i am drab i want to be with my SO and not with a guy, i guess something switches in my mind when the makeup and pretty clothes go on, do i like to be ogled when en femme? damn straight! i see c/d's on okcupid from time to time, they list themselves as female, i have e-mail with several but for some reason when i tell them i c/d too, they don't reply, leads me to believe they are straight and have no desire to message with a guy.