Doormat,
I was wondering if things would be different for you if your situation was the way it is for my wife and I? I do not not try to pass as female, in fact with my bald head and beard I would be a very ugly female. I started out with kilts. A very male garment to be sure. That transitioned into mini skirts when I would get ladies constantly commenting about how jealous they were of my legs. By the way I spent 20 years as a professional ballet dancer and teacher to explain the legs. I started wearing anties because they fit me better than the thick men's briefs, again because of my build from dancing. I don't have or want any dresses or high heals and don't use makeup. I just prefer women's clothing on the bottom half because it fits me better.
If your husband did this the way I do, would it still cause you problems? There is no judgement in my heart here, I'm just curious. Three of my four children don't care about my skirts and my marine son has even gone out to throw darts with me when I ave had a skirt on. My wife is fine with it but won't go out of the yard with me if I am in a skirt while my oldest son doesn't care what I do in my home but prefers that I dress in more "manly" clothing when he and his children are around...yes I do honor his wishes out of respect for him.
