Quote Originally Posted by Leona View Post
Something you GGs that have repeatedly insisted on the importance that your CDing SO have is honesty need to consider this: My wife only tells me the good stuff. She never talks to me about the negative feelings she has. I have to insist that she be honest about her feelings and that she talk to me about them. I also have to insist that she should initiate these conversations whenever she needs to. In every single way that it's wrong for a CDer to sneak around and hide the dressing, it's also wrong for the GG to withhold her feelings. It's supposed to be a two way street of communication.

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Most cross dressers can't take the truth. Sorry but that is true. First of all the feelings are very complicated. We want to please our cd partners, we have guilt when it disgusts us. I would bet most gg's would be elated if they woke up one day and the cross dressing was gone forever. Whenever I expressed my true feeling towards the cross dressing I would get drama and purging so I just kept it to myself and eventually just said F##k it is not my deal anyway and I only marginally enjoyed it. He made it so difficult to enjoy any aspect of it right down to the not getting out of the car when so much effort was made to go out dressed. It was nerve racking because the cd is essentially in disguise but the gg is not. It is embarrassing sometimes, you wonder what people think of you. It can also be dangerous and gg's have enough to worry about just being female in this stupid world.

I think you need to stop defending your position so much and perhaps really wear your wife's shoes. I'm still leaning on the self-absorbed self-obsessed assessment of you based on this thread. How is that for a little truth?