Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
Michele, the best way to find out is to actually have sex with a man and then see how you feel. Reality and fantasy are not the same and bringing a fantasy to reality is the best way to find out who you're really attracted to ... and it could well be that you are most aroused at the thought of yourself as a woman, which I suppose is its own sexual orientation.

Can you see yourself in a romantic relationship with a guy? What about with a girl?
Firstly, thanks for replying, it means a lot to me, i cant be candid about this with anyone else.

The truth is that I have had a lot of relationships with women and am very attracted to them, especially the high heels! Thats not in question. as for guys, well I have a submissive side and sometimes i might cheekily fantasise but its always faceless guys. I was kissed by a guy once but it turned me off and i have actually had sex with a t-girl. i kind of enjoyed the sucking bit (me sucking) and the sex (receiving - i made her let me wear her heels lol, that really turned me on) but afterwards it didnt feel right and i couldnt kiss her at all. if it had been a gay guy with clearly a mans body then i couldnt have done it at all for sure.

im a bit of a mess