"Im so tired of needing to always be a man"

[Aprilrain]

Yeah the walls we construct are often over built. Just keep in mind that they exist as much to keep something in as they are for protection. So if you crack the gates open a little, it isn't certain just what will come out, or whether you'll put it back in the box later. Assuming the whole edifice doesn't collapse.

Be careful what you wish for I guess.

Paula, you see thats the thing! a CDer does not have a woman inside just waiting to burst out like we did. That is the essential difference between your experience with CDing and hiding your true nature (and mine, i might add) and your average CDers. Before everyone jumps down my throat, I'm not saying one is better than the other its just different.

@Dizzy, nothing will change until those men who want to wear skirts in public as men come out and stand up for their right to do so. Social change doesn't just happen you have to fight for it. Blacks, latinos, Women, LGBT etc. have all taken to the streets to fight for their rights and continue to do so. Until crossdressers, who are largely white heterosexual men, decide to get out there and fight for their right to be feminine you will not see the change you seek. just saying!