Whoa, a whole lotta tough love going on here. MM, even if you dont agree with alot of these comments, its obvious that you are much loved here.
I can relate, even if Im at the other end of the spectrum, so to speak. I like to think if I were genetically male I would be some sort of cool nerd, like a cross between James Bond and a chemistry professor. lol! In reality I look like a fat, middle aged mom. :facepalm: Thats not how I feel. But I have had short hair and hated the way it looked on me, cant seem to lose the weight either. It is what it is, as much as it does suck at times.
The cool thing about your build is that, in the business world, people who look like you, as long as they dress in a nice suit, have a career advantage because of the way others perceive them. Business is very much about others perception of you.





