Ahhh ... but then we get back to defining sexual preference. Is it defined by fantasy or the things that we actually DO on a regular basis?Originally Posted by flatlander_48
People do fantasize about situations they would not like in real life. Read this article. In one example, they say that some women fantasize about cheating on their husbands. Does this mean they are not monogamous? No. They do not want to hurt their husbands. In another example, women say they fantasize about rape. Does this mean they actually want to be raped? No. The reality of rape is far too harsh.
I actually have the book, My Secret Garden. This is where I learned that the world of sexual fantasy is distinct and separate from reality, and it is not because people are repressing themselves.
