Quote Originally Posted by Maria 60 View Post

Let's just say my wife seen that control and tried it on me but I told her if she wanted me to get the luggage for her.
She told me a women needs a strong aggressive man next to her to keep her in place. A women will respect and appreciate a man better when there more aggressive, I couldn't believe my mom said that. Saying that my wife tells me her worst memory of the past with my dressing was when I got aggressive, but as far as I'm concerned it was the aggression that I made my strives forward.
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I'm not going to address this poster because this is so offensive and shows such a lack of decorum that it would really end badly.
Plus, I don't talk to males that think like this but I hope everyone here knows not, DO NOT talk to your SO in this manner ever.
Most women aren't going to take that lightly and will deal with it swiftly as one should .. if you need to get aggressive do it on your own.

If any women are reading this, no, this above is not ok and you do not have to deal an aggressive male if he cannot dress or you don't like it. Under NO circumstances should you be frightened into dealing with it. Get the appropriate assistance.