I am in complete agreement with Missy when she asked what is there to gain by sharing this information with your SO? I see nothing wrong with having personal privacy. If I had to tell my wife every thing that occurs in my life I think I would rather be divorced. I have things I tell my best friend that I would never share with anyone else. I have things I share with my brother that I do not feel compelled to share with anyone else. I have things I share with my wife that no one should ever know and I have private things that none of the above have any right to know.
For the love of Pete, what has Giorgio done that is so devastating? Hell, I don't think I would get that kind of reaction if I had confessed to some brutal crime. Personally, I would be telling the wife its time to take your foot off my throat, the holier than thou crap has just ended..........but that's me.
I wish you the best in accomplishing your goals.
