Konfused, I get what you are saying. And I'm sure you think my advice is too harsh or radical. Perhaps it is, but as one gets older and you learn through the hard knocks of life, you see things clearer earlier. My take is that you are torn between your feelings for her and your desire to dress. Those feelings are in conflict. That inner conflict becomes the breeding ground for a host of negative feelings (hence your username and you posting this thread).
If you were married with kids then I would be advising time, patience and compromise. But you are young, single and free. I don't advise compromise. I'd move on.
