We seem to be caught up once again in the word game. Let's kill the argument by getting the definitions right. One of the definitions of fantasy I found in a dictionary is "imagination unrestricted by reality". Another is "whimsy". Heterosexual (synonym: straight) describes an attraction for a person of the opposite sex. It may be fair to say that a M2F cd may not be straight if there's a desire for a sexual encounter with a man, but it's quite a leap to say that imagining an encounter is the same as desiring one, and disallowing a person who fantasizes about men but is not attracted to men the use of the label "straight".
Many cd's with absolutely no desire to have sex with a man still fantasize about a date with one, to be treated like a lady in fulfillment of a fantasy.
Have you ever contemplated rape, or murder? No, not desiring to do it, but thinking about what it would be like, or how others who do those things might think and feel, And then rejecting the thought as unacceptable behavior, which would be impossible without first contemplating it. It's unrestricted imagination, then discarded by introducing reality into it. That doesn't make you a rapist or murderer.
One post here tells of years of fantasizing about men, and denial, before finally figuring it out and accepting gayness. And then goes on to say that those who fantasize about men are similarly in denial and need to get a grip. You know: been there, done that, know all the excuses, had the fantasies and turned out gay, so if you have fantasies and claim to be straight, you're gay but in denial. All those years of confusion, and suddenly has everyone else figured out. C'mon man!
By definition, fantasies aren't real.
