There's a lot of that certainly, but I also see attempts to try to cut through all the fantasy. And you're a huge ally in this regard. I admire that you tell it like it is.Originally Posted by Badtranny
That said, many members are here specifically for the fantasy. Yet they know who they are. They log off this forum and go mow the lawns or put oil in their wives' cars. And I dare say they wouldn't change any of this. But while logged on, for a brief shining moment they are the girl of their dreams, this beautiful creature that holds men's hearts in her hand. These men are not interested in cutting through the fantasy. This forum is a respite for them.
The trouble is, their friends' wives become members and read their posts, and it creates all sorts of havoc in their lives because they don't know if their husbands share the same fantasies.
It's kinda like living in a large country with people who have origins from all over the world, and are all over the map in terms of education and socio-economic backgrounds. There is a huge melting pot and it's hard to strike a balance where everyone will be happy.
