*Sigh* Again, if we don't disclose, we are "decievers" and "tricking" people. Damn. Honestly, sometimes we're the most Transphobic people around, and our own worst enemies. As an adult, a Trans woman has a right to want anything she wants, like anyone. Whether that be sex or a relationship is everyone's right to choose, at any given time.
It may be more honest, better for a relationship, allow one to breathe easier and safer, to tell. I happen to agree with all of that. Just don't tell me it's a requirement, or else I'm in the business of tricking people, and not honest.
Hugs,
Melissa
