DoorMat!!!!Originally Posted by DoorMat
I love your posts and your perspective. I especially love that you're pissed off and not afraid to say it. I generally support my CD sisters by default, but I'm not married to one. The variety of CD attitudes and personalities is so huge that they absolutely defy categorization. Some of them I immediately feel a kinship with while there are others who seem like they're from another planet. Having said that, cross-dressing would NOT be a deal breaker for me as long as I knew it from the very beginning. There are a few CD's on this board who I would totally date and I'm on record as digging big strong alpha males. The deciding factor to me is confidence and self acceptance. If my otherwise masculine guy wanted to dress up on occasion and go out with his friends then I wouldn't mind that at all. But if he wanted to sit around the house in a bra and panties and pretend his name was Esmerelda and wanted us to giggle like girlfriends, than that relationship would be a short one.
The issue here isn't cross dressing is it? It's a personality conflict. You don't like his "fem" personality because his internalized shame has broken him into two people. It is NOT your job to work through his issues. If I were you, I would be on the road because all the time you spend wishing things were different is just wasted time, and if there is one thing a tranny knows, it's that time is way too valuable to waste wishing.
