Quote Originally Posted by PaulaQ View Post
It is interesting that you assert this despite all the evidence to the contrary. Do you present as male often ? I don't do it at all anymore, last time I tried it was too taxing emotionally, never again.
Again Paula, completely missing the point but you're not the only one so I'm clearly not getting my point across very well. Obviously I don't make an effort to present as male but I have curves and huge boobs so I don't have much of a choice. My transition is complete. I wasn't trying to advise people that are in transition and maybe that was my mistake. I have very little experience with cross-dressing so perhaps I'm completely wrong, but I don't consider them to be frustrated transsexuals. I consider them to be men who enjoy cross-dressing because they feel some need to express some kind of 'femininity' and they don't know how to do it any other way.

All I'm trying to say is maybe they should consider the crazy idea of trying to find ways to work their real personality into their real lives. I am not saying they should come out as TS or CD or anything too freaky, just be three dimensional men. Clearly this concept is too progressive for this forum but I pity anyone who is so ruled by fear that they can't even admit to enjoying a sappy movie or a pedicure with their daughter.

Whatever, it makes no difference to me.