As the first responder and MD, my professional opinion is that the psychologist is way off base. Do not go back to her. Find another. If she wasn't biased towards transitioning I doubt that she would be a member of that group. (Do not mistake this as a negative view of transitioning by me.). You are extraordinarily vulnerable just now and need to really move sloooooooowly. Keep the communication going and best of luck. Let us help where we can.
Edit: well, almost the first responder.
