I'm gonna be a brunette Tinkerbell, and anybody who doesn't like it can kiss my ass! :D

I don't see what this has to do with Halloween. If you're in a relationship where everyday you are confronted with major things that you know you will always hate about each other you have to ask yourself why you're still in that relationship.

This situation seems a bit ridiculous. Does everything have to be a difficult compromise that neither of you are happy with? Either go to the party or don't. Either dress as a woman or don't. What's the point in going to the party all femme but not wearing what you want to wear? If your femme side pisses her off shouldn't she be happy if you go edgy with it instead of wearing an everyday look and making it totally obvious that this is what you like to do and not just a joke for Halloween?


Quote Originally Posted by TxKimberly View Post
It just rubs my face in how my wife apparently really feels about me, and what I can and can't be, what I am and am not.
All of us get down sometimes and feel like the beauty, the success, the relationships, or the entire lives of others are rubbing our faces in what we will never be. I just cry a little bit and dump it all on my therapist the next week. Hang in there, Kim!