I'm sorry Kimberly...I hate Halloween because of this issue. Steph is going out as a femme vampire. My issue is to me its not a costume, I know the truth, and that's what makes it hard because no one else does. I want to be something funny, but can't find a costume that isn't sexy..We are not going to a party, we are going tick or treating with my son...he's going to be Boba Fett. This mean going to my parents..his parents..and his nanie's. I am scared of the reactions...questions..that's why I want a full face mask...my parent know when I am lieing....can't hide it..never have...since my mom is in hospice..I really don't want her to worry. Steph told me that with Halloween all bets were off and in essence I didn't have a say on what she was going to do...I would really like us all to be star wars theme..since this is the first Halloween no one has to work. Right now I think I'd rather work..then turn what is supposed to be a fun holiday to a stressful one. I hope you both can come to a compromise some how